Measuring your glass
I recently came across a blog post by a colleague named David Bushell. His post titled “Design and Enjoy it” explores the dynamic we all face as designers in the vast world of talent, critique and accomplishment. In it, he talks about the roller coaster of creative acceptance, critique of your work and remaining positive throughout the process. After reading the post I was inspired to build off of his thoughts and inject some of my own.
As a person who has been supporting himself solely on design work for about three years now, I feel like I have learned countless lessons in a short time. Among those lessons are things like handling customer relations, effective project management, overseeing business growth, learning self discipline and the evolution of my core trade skills. As we all know, a small business owner can and must wear a lot of hats.
I have discovered that there is one key element that resonates in all of these different areas - how you choose to handle challenges can drastically alter the outcome. Attitude can set the stage for success or failure. How you choose to look at situations will effect how you then react to and solve them. I feel like I am lucky in that I have a naturally patient and optimistic disposition. While this can work against me in certain circumstances, it is usually a huge benefit, and it always allows me to maintain my sanity. With that sanity I am able to hold a clear and positive view of the future, even when the eventual outcome in a specific situation seems pretty dismal.
I am not saying that I am perfect. I drop the ball just as much, if not more, than the next person. Finding a balance between work and life is a constant battle for me too. But, it’s all about handling the negatives as they arise. For me, it’s all about acknowledging a mistake, understanding how to avoid it in the future and moving on. The faster I can do all of this, the better. This is not to say run away from a problem, but rather diagnose, plan and push forward. Letting negativity grow within you will kill you as a creative source. We are at our strongest when we have a sense of freedom, so the faster you can get back to a free and clear state-of-mind, the better and more productive you will be.
“The power of a positive attitude can be felt by everyone around you.”
As designers we live for the idea of creativity without boundaries. Make sure not to create artificial boundaries for yourself through negativity. By choosing to not release negative barriers in a reasonable time frame, you are creating mental road blocks for yourself. Only when you can move past the negative energy will you be able to reach a more satisfying creative reality.
Bad days will happen. A client rejects the design you so eloquently delivered, you get overwhelmed by the amount of talent around and question your own, you start doubting yourself for lack of creative output on a new project. We all have those days. You just need to understand when it is happening and take control of it. Whether it be a quick break, a drink or a day off find your release. However you do it, you need to recognize it and take action.
The worst thing for me is when negativity begins to take me over and starts to kill my “Mojo”. This is a word we use frequently in the office and now is a metric by which we can measure how we view the level of our glass. We understand that Mojo must stay high for the overall wellness of both business and personal life. This small metric helps keep our reality in check. When you can start to understand that the sky is not falling and this is just a speed bump that can be overcome, you will start to control how you view your glass.
The power of a positive attitude can be felt by everyone around you. It can shape your working atmosphere, the way your clients view you and even how successful you can make your company. But it’s not about pretending, it’s about being proactive. Deal with those problems before they deal with you.
How you choose to look at your glass determines how full (or empty) it really is.
KSRuprai on April 27th, 2011 5:47 am
Great post.
Shows that all of us drop the ball, but how we respond and learn from it is just as important.
I have a ‘Glass is half full’ state of mind (or try to) on most things.
Bill Kenney on April 27th, 2011 7:17 am
Thanks Kultar,
Glad to hear you were able to take something away from it and that you try to stay on the positive side as well :)
KSRuprai on April 27th, 2011 7:54 am
No worries. I’ll be sure to follow on Twitter and keep an eye out for more posts.
Tre J on April 27th, 2011 7:54 am
Love this post! Well said. Well written. Great way to get the day started and keep the creativity flowing! It’s comforting to know you are not alone in the creative frontier. Let’s keep the glass full of positivity! Thank you Bill!
Allison Mol on April 27th, 2011 9:22 am
Be careful with that mojo! :)
Great blog, as usual.
Erik Reagan on April 27th, 2011 9:46 am
This always proves to be a great discussion. Our city’s Mayor seemed to think so today as well!
http://blog.thecreativecoast.org/of-doers-complainers/2011/04/27
Erik Shultz on April 27th, 2011 10:48 am
I am also in the creative field and my daily workflow is production. Keeping the glass positive is a daily goal in my line of work. When maintaining an under control, positive work day, my personal life always follows suit. There was a day in the past when my work negatively took over my personally life and a change had to happen.
Keep you head up and keep moving forward. It all works out in the end if you don’t try too hard :)
David Bushell on April 27th, 2011 1:50 pm
Thanks for the shout-out Bill! You’ve managed to say what I was thinking (and more) with a lot more intelligence :) I find it’s always worth taking a deep lung full of air when frustrated and thinking about the next positive move.
Bill Kenney on April 27th, 2011 5:03 pm
@Erik Shultz well said, thanks for sharing your side.
@David Bushell thanks for your support. Also many thanks for inspiring me to create better work and build on a voice within the design community.
James Wilson on April 27th, 2011 7:51 pm
This is a perfect line that I use all the time. A new guy with zero experience recently started at our work and the other day was beating himself up for making a simple mistake. I gave him the exact same words and you could tell a weight lifted from his shoulders. Had I left him to fester all day I’m sure he wouldn’t have been half as productive and might even make the same mistake.
In the end we’re all human and it’s impossible to be perfect all the time. Life’s too short to let the little mistakes screw up you’re whole day. Thanks for reminding us of that Bill.
Bill Kenney on April 27th, 2011 7:59 pm
@Jimmy Thanks for sharing. We all seem to overlook how a little encouragement and positive input can go so far. Keep rocking!
Rose on May 3rd, 2011 6:24 pm
So true! I’m in the design business as well, and try to keep the negative thoughts at bay as they do indeed cripple the creativity.
I recently tutored a child who had trouble reading. It was so very hard for him. Every time we sat down to a book, he’d tell me how hard it was. I asked him to start thinking about it as being easy and showed him a few tricks that made remembering his words easier. It took a week or two, but pretty soon he was picking up his basic words without a problem, and every time he got a new word, he’d tell me, “It’s easy!”
I try to remember my own advice when I’m picking up a new technology. Sometimes it really isn’t easy, but thinking it is helps make it so in the end.
Bill Kenney on May 3rd, 2011 8:07 pm
@Rose Thanks for sharing your personal story. It’s funny how easy it is for us to help others but forget our own words when we need them. Glad you could relate to the post.